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JOB OPPORTUNITY: Program Coordinator -Mediation Matters (Albany, NY)

Posted By Angela Ruck, Thursday, April 20, 2017
The Program Coordinator, under the supervision of the Executive Director, will be responsible for coordinating programs throughout the Mediation Matters’ six county service area but will be primarily housed in the Saratoga office and throughout Washington and into Warren County. The position is funded in large part by a grant from the New York State Office of Court Administration. Mediation Matters, Inc. was founded in 1979 as a non-profit, community-based organization to provide the skills and processes that help people handle conflict in a constructive way. The Center specializes in providing mediation and conflict resolution skills, training and consulting. Mediation/Facilitation services are offered for schools, county administrative agency related matters, court-based issues, workplaces, or anyone with an interpersonal challenge they wish to address. Offices are located in Albany, Saratoga Springs, Schenectady, and Lake George, NY. Mediation Matters has a strong commitment to serving the diverse communities of the Capital District; applicants who feel they can help us further those goals are strongly encouraged to apply. Job duties will include work in all areas of service but with a focus on youth and schools programs. Duties include but are not limited to: relationship development and management with county personnel, schools, and non-profits serving youth & families; case management: intake, managing referrals, and working with the on-line database; some administrative functions; supporting co-workers to meet the needs of the volunteers; education and outreach about Mediation Matters programs; and other duties as needed. Travel ability to the other Mediation Matters offices and throughout the Counties of Saratoga, Warren, and Washington is necessary. Though the position will have an office in the Saratoga office, significant portions of the week could eventually be in spent in schools or other partner locations throughout Saratoga, Warren, or Washington Counties. Qualifications: Training in Restorative Practices and/or mediation though not required, is highly desired. Good written and oral communication skills, computer literacy, flexibility, and creativity are required. Salary and Hours: This position is full time: full time at Mediation Matters is 35 hours/week. Mediation Matters contributes to basic individual healthcare plans. Applications: Review of applications will begin May 1, 2017. To apply, please send 1) a letter of interest outlining applicable skills, 2) résumé, 3) salary requirements and 4) three references to:
Sarah Rudgers-Tysz – Executive Director Mediation Matters 
10 N. Russell Road, 2nd Floor Albany, NY 12206 

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What Pushes Your Hot Buttons?

Posted By Christine Tauzel, NYSAMP Program Director, Monday, July 25, 2016

Every year in August, the New York State Agricultural Mediation Program (NYSAMP) participates in Empire Farm Days. The event is the largest outdoor agricultural trade show in the Northeastern U.S. with an astonishing range of exhibits, seminars, demonstrations, and activities featuring the latest innovations, newest technologies and cutting-edge techniques in agriculture.

Last year, NYSAMP asked “On the farm, what pushes your buttons?” And people told us with answers ranging from the predictable: spouses, government, and weather to the surprising: tomato-snatching chickens, cell phones, and arguments over the last piece of pie.

When we train people to use mediation or conflict management tools we often stress how important it is to be aware of, and to develop tools for managing, our hot buttons, biases and triggers.

As an agricultural mediation program, it is also critical that we keep our finger on the pulse of today’s New York farmer. What makes them tick? What really gets to them?

This year we will continue our unscientific survey at Empire Farm Days in Seneca Falls on August 9th, 10th and 11th. Stop by Lot # 502 on West Seneca Acres Avenue and tell us about what pushes your “hot buttons” on the farm. Claudia Kenny and Chris Tauzel from NYSAMP will be there along with volunteer mediators and staff from local Community Dispute Resolution Centers. It would be great to see and hear from you!

New York State Agricultural Mediation Program (NYSAMP) offers confidential, low or no cost mediation to the Agriculture community in every county in New York. (

See the article in Morning Ag Clips

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Pokémon GO to Arbitration … But Only If You Don't Opt Out Within 30 Days!

Posted By Elise Friello, Lemon Law Arbitration Program Manager, Friday, July 22, 2016

Out with the days of gaming from the convenience of your couch and in with the days of gaming from the comfort of your sneakers. Since Pokémon GO was first released earlier this month many conversations have turned to safety concerns for those using the augmented reality game. Other conversations, however, have turned to legal rights for those agreeing to Pokémon GO’s Terms of Service.

Like most agreements, whether they be for social media and music sites or mobile devices, the consumer must agree to arbitrate their dispute individually rather than bring a lawsuit in court. This means that as soon as a consumer downloads an application or buys a device they must waive their right to sue or give up using that application or device. Unfortunately, a consumer may miss a few important points when they become irritated about this sue-versus-use dilemma.

  • First, even if the consumer retains their right to sue they may still be required to bring a lawsuit in whatever far-away jurisdiction the agreement indicates and be subject to the laws of that state. (Hint: The selected jurisdiction is for the company’s convenience and not the consumer's, unless you live in sunny California.)
  • Second, not all agreements have the same effect. It may not be a sue-versus-use situation. In fact, with Pokémon GO, there is a section that allows a consumer to opt out of the arbitration provision of the agreement by writing a letter or sending an e-mail within 30 days. Yes, sending an e-mail! This means that consumers must carefully read the dispute resolution section of every agreement and be proactive in informing themselves of their rights.
  • Third, not all alternatives to court strip consumers of their rights. While arbitration is unfamiliar to many, the process can be a cost effective way to resolve disputes in a quicker and less burdensome manner than litigation for the consumer, not just for the company. Additionally, the arbitration hearing is typically held in the county where the consumer resides, not a jurisdiction chosen by the company. For example, New York State’s Lemon Law Arbitration Program provides consumers whose new or used motor vehicles turn out to be “lemons” with a fair forum to settle disputes within 45 days of filing. Consumers are often able to avoid many of the disadvantages of going to court, including finding and then paying for an attorney, as well as waiting several months for an opening in the court’s calendar.

Ultimately, the decision on whether to opt out of Pokémon GO’s arbitration provision lies with the consumer. In the sue-versus-use dilemma many consumers have no alternative if the application or device is essential. With Pokémon GO’s Terms of Service, at least a proactive and informed consumer can make a choice on how to best protect their legal rights.

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Brainstorming - Meh?

Posted By Charlotte Carter, NYSDRA Executive Director, Friday, July 15, 2016
Updated: Friday, July 15, 2016

Mediators, facilitators, and consensus builders have long held brainstorming in high esteem. We assume that it is fair, inclusive, and productive.

Beth Tener, of New Directions Collaborative, says it is “Time to Rethink Brainstorming.” She cites research that shows that we do better when we take a few minutes to think separately and then pool our ideas. Traditional brainstorming actually inhibits participation, especially for introverts, and limits the generation of good ideas.

Ms. Tener has done her due diligence and describes an easy alternative brainstorming process called 1-2- 4-All. I’m eager to try this variation in a mediation setting, or in a staff or board meeting.

What applications can you think of?

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New Mediator Ethics Advisory Committee Opinion

Posted By Sheila Sproule, J.D., Co-Chair of the Mediator Ethics Advisory Committee, Friday, July 8, 2016

I am excited to share with you the newest Opinion from the Mediator Ethics Advisory Committee, which can be found on our web page by clicking this link: and then clicking on the link for Opinion 2015-01. The Committee -- comprised of your CDRC, NYSDRA and Dispute Resolution academic colleagues, peers and volunteers -- is copied here, so our office can acknowledge their important contribution to our understanding of mediator ethics. The Quarterly Subcommittee, who provide the full Committee with the written Opinion upon which they vote, was comprised this term of Committee members Sarah Rudgers-Tysz, Ryon Fleming and Alex Carter. We thank them for their thoughtful and informative work!  


This Opinion is timely, since it involves a request to video record a mediation at a CDRC. In this particular scenario, the CDRC does not have a policy regarding the recording of mediation sessions. Both of the parties in this custody and visitation case are represented by attorneys, and the husband’s attorney has requested the recording of the session/s with the husband’s consent, since the attorney is unable to participate in the session/s. The wife and her attorney, as well as the attorney for the child, have also consented to this request. After considering the concerns raised by the mediator and the center, including the impact that the video recording might have on the integrity of the process, the parties, and the mediator, and applying the applicable Standards and levels of guidance to those considerations, the Committee concluded that under this scenario the video recording should not be allowed. 


Please share this Opinion with who you think might benefit from reading it. As always, if you have any questions, or would like to submit an anonymous inquiry (meaning no identifying information will be provided in the written Opinion) to the Committee on behalf of a staff member or volunteer at your center, please feel free to do so by sending your inquiry by email to


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The Collaborative Governing Program’s 4 Steps for Conflict Resolution

Posted By Carla Schlist, Director of Marketing and Member Services, Thursday, July 7, 2016

Read all about NYSDRA's board-led initiative that helps politicians cross party lines to find common ground and accomplish shared goals. The program is currently administered in Orange County by the Dispute Resolution Center.

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DIY Farm Fixes: Conflict

Posted By Claudia Kenny, NYSAMP Statewide Director, Wednesday, July 6, 2016

Author Claudia KennyAs farmers we are masters of the quick fix. We are good at mending fences on the fly and cobbling together a piece of broken equipment to finish the job before the day ends.  Farm conflict, whether with family members, coworkers, employees, or even neighbors, is like any other problem we solve. Having a plan, some awareness, and a few tools can help out with the short term fixes you need to get through the day.

Conflict is a normal part of any farm business. Conflicts come often when people have different values, goals, and perspectives. Conflict can be a positive force on the farm, if we manage it well.  Conflict can create energy, focus and change.  It can also cause us to revisit a decision and consider it more carefully.  Conflict can help us understand what is important to us and to others. The way we manage conflict means the difference between the conflict becoming a negative or positive experience.

Fight, Flight, Freeze 

Most of us are not at our best during a conflict.  We say things we don’t really mean, make accusations, and refuse to hear what the other person is saying.  We get locked in a narrow mindset feeling like one way is the right way and the only way.  There is a biological reason for this “my way or the highway” attitude!

According to neuroscience, we actually don’t have our full capacity to see multiple perspectives or make complex decisions, when we are “triggered”, or in fight, flight, freeze mode.  When we are “triggered,” stress hormones flood our body and then neural pathways to the prefrontal cortex, shut down.   The prefrontal cortex is the area of the brain that helps us sort conflicting thoughts and right from wrong. This is a big deal! We feel tense, irritated and unable to stop thinking in a loop.

Below are a few techniques to help you manage conflict on the farm:

  1. Notice when you are triggered and take a break 

Noticing you are triggered helps you begin to shift from reactivity to managing your conflicts productively. Cool off and do nothing for a little while

Make a practice of noticing when you are triggered and in “fight, flight or freeze”. Name it. Just noticing can help you shift from being triggered. Since we don’t have access to our full capacity when we a triggered, building awareness will help you know when to take a break during a conflict instead of engaging.

2. Reflect 

Reflect on the situation. Review your observations. What happened, what did you see or hear, what words were said? (think of what a video camera can see or record- just the observables).  We often mix observations with evaluations and you will want to try to separate evaluations from your observations.

Evaluative Observation:  “She angrily dropped her hoe and stormed up to the barn”

Observation: “She dropped her hoe and went to the barn.”

Reflect on selfWhat feelings do we experience as a result of the data we observe? Usually there are a range of feelings.  “I feel angry and disappointed and frustrated and most of all just really tired of the tension.” What are the needs or values that relate to those feelings? For instance, if you are feeling angry it is easy to think it is because someone did something that really pissed you off.  But we are the only ones who create our response.  No one can really make us angry.  What is it that you were really wanting, is there a value you care about? (ex. if you are really tired of the tension you might really value and want ease and peace etc).

Reflect on the otherHow might the other person be feeling in relation to the observable data? What are the needs and values they might be holding that relate to those feelings? Try to put yourself in their shoes and understand the situation from their perspective.

3. Talk about it 

Sometimes we learn something about ourselves in the reflective process and don’t need to talk about anything.  If you decide a conversation is the next step here are a few tips.

Listen firstFocus carefully on what is said and reflect back the information and opinions. You don’t have to remember every detail but try to get the gist of the story.  Use their words and phrasing rather than your own interpretation.   You don’t have to agree with what they are saying.  Check to find out if you are hearing them in the way they want to be heard.

Avoid reflecting back judgments.  For example “Jon is a jerk” might be reflected back as “you are thinking Jon is a jerk.” If the story is very long interrupt and reflect back in chunks rather than at the end.  Interrupt by saying something like, “Let me see if I am understanding what you are saying so far is…”

Then check to see if you understand their feelings. Asking instead of telling someone how they feel is most effective.  “So I am wondering if this is really frustrating for you?” If your guess is wrong the person will give you more information.  “I am not frustrated, I am mad.”

Reflect back what is most important to the person. Make a guess? “So are you really wanting _______?” (ex: things to run efficiently on the farm? )

When you feel the person has said everything that they wanted to be heard about see if they are willing to hear about your experience.

Share your experienceShare your observations, and the feelings that came up for you.  Share what you care about now in relation to the conflict and what is most important to you? Focus on the problem or the issue and not the person.

4. Find Solutions

Make requests (not demands); accept a “NO” and be prepared with a second request.  If you are not really willing to hear a no you are most likely making a demand and not a request.

You may want to propose “experiments” to test potential solutions.

5. Know when to get help

If you try these things and realize you are in over your head with a situation consider “borrowing” the skills of a mediator just in the same way you might “borrow’ the skills of an accountant to help you figure out how to manage a tight financial spell.  Mediators are third party neutrals trained in communication who can offer individuals conflict coaching or can offer two or more parties mediation.

Even the best fences need maintenance and repairs.  If a broken fence is not repaired there are going to be problems.  It is not the broken fence that determines the outcome but how quickly we notice and how we choose to respond. Same with our relationships to people and conflict.  When we notice a conflict, and how we choose to respond or manage a conflict, makes a difference to the outcome.

Claudia Kenny has managed Little Seed Gardens with her husband in Columbia County, NY since 1995.  Learning to manage conflict constructively has been vital to their farm’s success which is dependent on webs of family, labor, community and business relationships. She has her masters degree in conflict analysis and engagement and is currently statewide director of New York State Agricultural Mediation Program (NYSAMP). NYSAMP offers confidential, low or no cost mediation to the agriculture community. 

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Mark Collins: Looking Back and Looking Forward

Posted By Charlotte Carter, NYSDRA Executive Director, Friday, April 15, 2016

Mark Collins, Assistant Coordinator for the New York State Unified Court System's Office of ADR Programs, worked for 34 years to build the network of Community Dispute Resolution Centers (CDRCs) in New York; he will be retiring this month. He was responsible for the supervision of the CDRCs, program funding and evaluation, mediation trainer certification, and the expansion of dispute resolution into family courts. We also honor Mark for his role in founding and partnering with NYSDRA as a professional association, administrator of statewide programs, and as an advocate for our members and the dispute resolution profession.

Mark wove the core values of mediation practice into his professional life.  He remained true to the original strands of community mediation, both of which manifested during times of national turmoil and political activism in the 1960’s. One strand flowed from the need for court reform and recognition that the judiciary system was overburdened. The second strand was a broader vision of social justice, and the belief that citizens could be empowered to take control of their own lives, resolve conflict, and preserve personal and professional relationships.  While providing oversight to the CDRC network to ensure quality of their processes, he supported their self-determination in terms of capacity building to meet emerging needs of their communities and stakeholders. Mark models transparency and accessibility:  one of the many pearls he passed on to his colleagues was the concept of managing while walking around.

Mark’s vision was grounded in practice; throughout his career he has been an ADR practitioner with a particular focus on victim-offender dialogues in serious crimes. He gained a national reputation, and served as board member and Board Co-Chair of the National Association for Community Mediation. Mark provided assistance to other state court systems in their design of community mediation networks. Over the years, Mark has been recognized by many organizations for his contributions to the field including the Lawrence Cook Peace Innovator Award from NYSDRA in 2010.

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NYSAMP Announces New Statewide Director

Posted By Charlotte Carter, NYSDRA Executive Director, Monday, March 7, 2016
Updated: Friday, April 15, 2016

Albany, NY - The New York State Agricultural Mediation Program (NYSAMP) is pleased to announce that Claudia Kenny has joined the organization as statewide director. Claudia brings over 20 years of experience as a farmer and sustainable food system activist. She and her husband own and operate Little Seed Gardens, a 97-acre family farm in the Hudson Valley region. Claudia has worked on agriculture related projects with diverse stakeholders and has been a mentor to young farmers on farm as well as through the Northeast Organic Farming Association of New York mentoring programs.

Claudia obtained her master’s degree in conflict resolution with a concentration in environmental conflict from Antioch University Midwest. She is also a graduate of Mediate Your Life where she was trained in compassionate communication and mediation.

“We are delighted that Claudia is joining our organization. Her combined background is perfect for this position. We look forward to her leadership role and vision for ensuring that mediation will be useful to folks in the agricultural community in resolving conflict, making collaborative plans, and preserving important business and personal relationships.” Charlotte Carter, Executive Director of the New York State Dispute Resolution Association, Inc.­ NYSAMP is one of several state wide dispute resolution programs administered by NYSDRA.



NYSAMP works with mediation service providers in every county in New York. Highly trained and experienced mediators provide effective ways to help people solve problems themselves and to avoid the high costs of escalating conflict or litigation. Those problems include unpaid bills, machinery and supplier credit, farm family-neighbor disputes, and farmer-community relations. More than 900 people in the agricultural community use NYSAMP annually; of over 400 mediations 93% result in agreement. NYSAMP provides the agricultural community an opportunity to communicate clearly, negotiate effectively, and find understandings that can lead to fair and workable solutions.

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Peter Glassman, In Retrospect

Posted By Charlotte Carter, NYSDRA Executive Director, Monday, January 25, 2016
Updated: Monday, January 25, 2016

The mediation community in New York is mourning the loss of one of our favorite people. Peter Glassman was a consummate advocate, practitioner and trainer; his warm light touch and devotion to social justice was a joy and inspiration to many of us. 

Peter’s respect, genuine interest and gentle guidance inspired a remarkable level of loyalty and commitment in the people who were fortunate to work with him, especially at Mediation Matters and NYSDRA. I’ve heard that respect and admiration echoed by many who attended his trainings and workshops over many years.

My own relationship with Peter began decades ago when I was a fledgling, an somewhat overly enthusiastic, community volunteer. He was willing to trust my good intentions and to indulge me in my desire for discussion and debate. He was one of my first mentors as a trainer, and supported me in my professional growth. Once he nearly hired me.

Just a few years ago, Peter made a significant change in his professional trajectory and adopted the NYS Agricultural Mediation Program. This flip-flop in our own relationship amused us no end. I wondered how his distinctive style and penchant for quirky humor would fly with the larger agricultural community. I guessed that many farmers would appreciate him, and I was curious about how some of the senior staff at the USDA and Department of Agriculture might react. The chemistry was there from the start, and we’ve received many inquiries and expressions of concern and appreciation from his newest community.

My own sense of gratitude for the great good fortune to have worked so closely with Peter overwhelms me during these dark times of shock and loss. I’m grateful to Elyn Zimmerman, Peter’s wonderful and amazing wife, who was able to navigate the difficult journey they were forced to embark. She was also able to open her aching heart to include many of us from Peter’s work life. I will be eternally grateful that the stars aligned to allow me to take my friendship and professional relationship with Peter to a whole new level. On the other hand, I’m furious at the universe, or at least at the random laws of the universe, that allows a few tiny cells to misbehave and create such mayhem and pain and loss.

Peter opened our last conversation with a phrase I’m guessing he had used in other similar encounters: “I don’t even know where to begin and end with you."

I’m going to end with some of Peter’s words, speaking in his role of a remarkably Good Citizen with an extraordinary appreciation of diverse viewpoints, a fascination with processes that include rather than marginalize, and an unquenchable drive towards civic engagement and social justice:

“Participating in the process actually improves our opinion of others' opinions. This is a precious gift, given the current boorish nature of our public discourse. Whether or not we agree with their views, the Occupy movement can inspire us to create a local infrastructure for participatory democracy that generates more light than heat.” Peter Glassman, in a letter to the Times Union, December 10, 2011

To read Peter’s obituary and provide condolences to his family, please click here.

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JOB OPPORTUNITY: Statewide Director

Posted By Charlotte Carter, NYSDRA Executive Director, Monday, January 4, 2016
Updated: Monday, January 4, 2016

Position Title: Statewide Director
Organization: New York State Agricultural Mediation Program
Location: Albany, NY
Posted: January 4, 2016
Expiration: February 1, 2016

NYSAMP is a vibrant statewide mediation service dedicated to providing free and low cost mediation and conflict resolution services to farmers, agribusiness, and rural communities. NYSAMP is seeking a highly motivated and qualified individual with exceptional interpersonal, leadership, organizational, and program development skills to oversee the continued growth and development of this nationally recognized program.

Job responsibilities: The Statewide Director is responsible for:

Program Development and Outreach

  • Build partnerships with government agencies, agribusiness and
    nonprofit organizations providing service to agricultural producers
  • Conduct speaking engagements and workshops at conferences and meetings
  • Develop and implement marketing and public awareness efforts utilizing print and social media.
  • Produce press releases, brochures, annual reports, and other materials
  • Meet with elected officials and other key governmental officials
  • Research and pursue other sources of funding to expand program’s ability to respond to agricultural issues and interests
  • Provide technical assistance to local mediation center staff to increase the capacity and effectiveness of local outreach and direct services
  • Supervise NYSAMP Program Manager

Program operations:

  • Oversee case management
  • Oversee quality assurance for the statewide roster of agricultural mediators
  • Maintain operational procedures
  • Produce quarterly reports and information as needed relating to program case analysis, training and finances
  • Manage program finances and budget

Required Qualifications: Interested applicants must have:

1. personal or professional experience, or other strong links, with the agricultural community, and/or
2. experience implementing or overseeing dispute resolution programming.

Desired Qualifications: Supervisory experience, training experience, and knowledge of local community dispute resolution centers.

Compensation: Salary will be commensurate with qualifications and experience.

To apply: Send a resume and cover letter (with salary requirements) via email only to:

Charlotte Carter, Executive Director,

All applications will be confidential.

Application Deadline: February 1, 2016

NYSAMP is a program of the New York State Dispute Resolution Association, the leading membership association in New York for dispute resolution professionals, and an administrator of several statewide dispute resolution programs. The NYSDRA offices are located at 4 Pine West Plaza, Suite 411, Albany NY.

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JOB OPPORTUNITY: Youth Program Services Manager

Posted By Carla Schlist, Director of Marketing and Member Services, Tuesday, December 29, 2015

Youth Program Services Manager

Mediation Matters has a new position that will coordinate conflict resolution and restorative justice programs for youth and their communities. This position reports to the Executive Director and is funded by a grant from the Department of Justice and the NYS Unified Court System.

Mediation Matters, Inc. was founded in 1979 as a non-profit, community-based organization to provide the skills and processes that help people handle conflict in a constructive way. The Center specializes in providing mediation and conflict resolution skills, training and consulting. Offices are located in Albany, Saratoga Springs, Schenectady, and Glens Falls, NY. Mediation Matters has a strong commitment to serving the diverse communities of the Capital district; applicants who feel they can help us further those goals are strongly encouraged to apply.

Job duties will include, but are not limited to:

Conducting outreach to schools, community partners, and community groups to expand youth conflict resolution programming in Albany, Rensselaer, and Schenectady County;

Working with the youth connected to the Albany Family Court Juvenile Drug Court, their families, schools, and others from the community engaged with the youth; coordinating restorative circles for the youth and those involved with the youth; assisting to develop protocols and manage protocols for the restorative justice component of the juvenile drug court; and managing the roster of volunteers with this specialized training;

Depending on experience and qualifications this position may also be responsible for managing associated staff, interns or others supporting the program.

Qualifications: Associates Degree or equivalent experience (preference given to those with a degree), demonstrated experience working with youth, training in conflict resolution skills (recommended), computer literacy, good written and oral communication skills, creativity and flexibility.

Salary, Hours, and Location: This is a full-time position (full-time for Mediation Matters is 35 hours per week). Salary is commensurate with experience. The position will largely be based in Albany County; all candidates must have the ability to travel throughout Albany, Rensselaer, and Schenectady Counties.

To apply, please send a letter of interest outlining applicable skills and salary requirements, résumé, and three references to:

Sarah Rudgers-Tysz - Executive Director

Mediation Matters

10 N. Russell Road, 2nd Floor

Albany, NY 12206

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Emerging Fox

Posted By Charlotte Carter, NYSDRA Executive Director, Monday, December 14, 2015

Metaphors nourish me, especially in my life as a mediator.  In addition to pure pleasure and cognitive calories, they help raise into consciousness some of the mysteries of the mediation process. Against plenty of evidence to the contrary, I live in hope that awareness leads to clarity and effective intervention.

One of the ineffables is what happens when the muddle and mess of conflict laid out on the table gradually transforms and emerges as bright new solutions and consensus. After decades of practice it still feels like magic.

I recently rediscovered a popular poem called “The Thought-Fox.” Ted Hughes describes the slow and mysterious emergence of a fox in winter; he is also talking about the creation of a poem. He describes the approach of a glowing eye:

“A widening deepening greenness, 
Brilliantly, concentratedly, 
Coming about its own business.”

Richard Webster, a critic, interprets Hughes’s poetic vision as “the conflict between violence and tenderness.”

Mediation allows participants to bridge the gap dividing competition and collaboration, and to reconnect with those preservationist impulses to be kind and generous with one another. Mediator neutrality and respect for self-determination ensures that the people we work with “come about [their] own business.”  Seeing a fox stirs us with primal responses; witnessing conflict transformation is also a profound and energizing privilege.

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Take Off Your Shoes: The Sole of Restorative Problem-Solving

Posted By Alison Ritchie, Director of Program Operations, Tuesday, October 27, 2015

I was fortunate to attend the symposium on Restorative Practices for Youth: Building Relationships in Schools, Juvenile Justice, and Communities last week. The event was presented by the Skidmore College Project on Restorative Justice, the newest venture for NYSDRA board member David Karp.

The event included a keynote from Margaret Thorsborne, author of Implementing Restorative Practices in Schools (among others) and internationally-known expert on restorative practices. Her simple yet comprehensive approach to a complex topic left the entire audience inspired and energized to see restorative processes utilized more widely in schools and the juvenile justice system. Marg showed the audience the scientific data needed to prove that punishing school children for bad behavior, and a zero-tolerance approach to problem solving, does not work to change that behavior. Instead of behavior management, schools need to focus on relationship management and creating a positive climate for learning. She used humor and simple examples to show how a person is more able to grow and improve when they are valued and invested in. Her keynote set the perfect tone for the symposium’s panel discussions on implementing restorative processes in schools and working with juvenile justice agencies to incorporate these practices.

Duke Fisher led a particularly interesting lunchtime activity where attendees were asked to participate in their own circle activity during the meal. It was a way for us to “buy-in” to the process by actually using it. At my table, the educators present were more interested in talking amongst themselves than listening to what others had to say. When we were finally focused around a “talking item”, we were able to really hear each other. It was obvious it would take deliberate practice and further training for any of us to lead such an activity amongst students.

Marg also presented a lecture later in the evening on "Understanding the nature of emotional harm: Why restorative problem-solving is good for our brains". We were treated to more light-hearted story-telling while Marg addressed some pretty serious topics. She focused a lot on how negative emotions, when not metabolized, lead to shame. We learned how people’s responses to their own shame can lead to further harm: to self and others. Marg likened our response to a blister on our foot (take off the shoes!) to what should be our response to negative emotions – fix it! Rather than letting the pain and harm continue and fester, a restorative problem-solving approach can allow us to process our negative emotions and move beyond the harm.

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Easy as Pie Recipe for Blogging

Posted By Charlotte Carter, NYSDRA Executive Director, Monday, October 19, 2015

I was fortunate to attend the New York Council on Nonprofit's (NYCON) Camp Finance in early October:  two days of splendid workshops on finance, social media, governance, technology, and accountability & compliance. Even the panel discussions were packed with information and inspiration. We will briefly acknowledge that a couple of days in the Mohonk Mountain House -- with on-beyond amazing food, views and potential for exploring endless trails, gardens, a labyrinth, rooms with porches, rocking chairs and real fireplaces – didn’t hurt either. Very Nourishing.

Jay Wilkinson and the folks from Firespring whetted our appetites with a common sense approach to thought leadership and blogging strategies (check out their free online webinars!). Ok, maybe pie making isn’t easy for everyone, but this is worth a try (I’ll even include Lacy’s Impossible Pie, from my school chum. Stay with me.) So, thought leadership requires a commitment to generating great content, becoming an established expert, and inspiring action. This must be true because I heard it first from Carla Schlist, NYSDRA's Membership and Communications Manager.

Ingredients of popular and nutritional blogs:

  • Great stories
  • Encourage participation
  • Express gratitude
  • Timely and durable
  • Well edited
  • Short, pointed
  • Team produced


1. Select a team of 4-5 people who love to write, journal, etc.
2. Meet to discuss the blog theme and mission
3. Brainstorm topics (Jay thought we could generate 50 in an hour or two.)
4. Divide up the work
5. Repeat Steps 3 & 4 as needed.

So are you inspired? Will you act?

At least try this easy pie recipe. Mix 2/3 cup milk, ½ cup baking mix, and 2 eggs. Add 2 cups of vegetables cooked or thawed and ½ cup of cheese. Pour into a greased pie pan, and bake at 400° for 30-35 minutes.

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Mediations Increase at AAA Due to Rule Change

Posted By Jeffrey Zaino, Esq., Tuesday, July 28, 2015
Updated: Monday, July 27, 2015
In October 2013, the American Arbitration Association (AAA) amended the Commercial Rules and made a number of changes.  The rules had not been amended for several years. One significant change to the rules was to add the new Rule 9 requiring mandatory mediation for cases where a claim or counterclaim exceeds $75,000.  The addition of this rule has had a positive impact with respect to encouraging both mediations and settlements.

Rule 9 reads as follows:
In all cases where a claim or counterclaim exceeds $75,000, upon the AAA’s administration of the arbitration or at any time while the arbitration is pending, the parties shall mediate their dispute pursuant to the applicable provisions of the AAA’s Commercial Mediation Procedures, or as otherwise agreed by the parties.  Absent an agreement of the parties to the contrary, the mediation shall take place concurrently with the arbitration and shall not serve to delay the arbitration proceedings.  However, any party to an arbitration may unilaterally opt out of this rule upon notification to the AAA and the other parties to the arbitration.  The parties shall confirm the completion of any mediation or any decision to opt out of this rule to the AAA. Unless agreed to by all parties and the mediator, the mediator shall not be appointed as an arbitrator to the case.

The AAA saw a 51% increase in commercial mediations from 2013 to 2014 and a large increase in clients opting to mediate after initially filing for arbitration.  In 2014, 61% of AAA business-to-business cases were resolved prior to going to award and 43% of those cases were resolved so early that they incurred no arbitrator compensation.  There is a clear link between Rule 9 and increases in the AAA mediation caseload and settlements on cases initially filed as arbitrations.  

Though the parties can opt out of Rule 9, the rule has increased positive mediation dialogue between the AAA, parties and counsel.  The rule eliminates the “perception of weakness” concern that some parties and counsel may have about merely starting the conversation about mediation. Mediation is now being deemed an important “step” in the arbitration process with the ultimate goal to potentially reach early settlement and avoid a costly arbitration process.  Some parties are even opting for a two track process to conduct a mediation session while simultaneously keeping the arbitration process going.   

The International Centre for Dispute Resolution (ICDR), the international branch of the AAA, also amended its rules on June 1, 2014 to include discussion about mediation. 

Article 5 of the amended rules reads as follows:
Following the time for submission of an Answer, the Administrator may invite the parties to mediate in accordance with the ICDR’s International Mediation Rules. At any stage of the proceedings, the parties may agree to mediate in accordance with the ICDR’s International Mediation Rules. Unless the parties agree otherwise, the mediation shall proceed concurrently with arbitration and the mediator shall not be an arbitrator appointed to the case.

It is anticipated that this addition to the ICDR rules will also increase mediations.

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6 Reasons to Make Banning Workplace Bullies Your Business

Posted By Tara Fishler, NYSDRA Board President, Monday, July 6, 2015

Workplace bullies cost businesses more than you might think, jeopardizing workplace safety and morale. That’s why it’s important for businesses to have organizational-wide systems in place to educate employees and management about how to spot and eliminate workplace bullying. Businesses need to create an environment where employees are encouraged to document incidents, feel safe in reporting abuses and can expect a quick and positive resolution. Why is dealing with the workplace bully such as big issue?

  1. They’re everywhere. According to a 2010 study by the Workplace Bullying Institute, 35 percent of workers reported that they had been bullied by a co-worker or boss. And workplace bullying is an equal opportunity occurrence, with men and women being both the harassers and the victims. While 68 percent of bullying is same-gender harassment, when women are bullies, their victims are other women 80 percent of the time.
  2. They’re skilled. Adult bullies have had decades to develop their patterns of behavior.
  3. They’re bad for morale. A bully’s aim is to gain power or elevate their status by belittling or putting down others. Their tactics may range from humiliating targets, gossiping, spreading rumors, attempting to steal or damage property or even stalking their victims.
  4. They’re costly. Have a bully in your office? They’re probably costing you big bucks—even if the victims never hit you with a lawsuit. Employees targeted by bullies may experience health problems such as headaches, difficulty concentrating, depression and sleep and anxiety issues. These symptoms can result in absenteeism, reduced productivity and increased turnover.
  5. They’re pros at isolating their victims. Forget about just bullying victims when no one else is looking. Bullies can make others complicit in their behavior. Just like on the playground, in the workplace, bullies often recruit “secondary” adults who don’t want to be on the bully’s “bad side.” These adults go along with the bully’s behavior, making the bully’s victims feel even more isolated.
  6. Their effects are long-lasting. Even after the bullying stops or the bully leaves the workplace, the pain they inflicted can linger. Former targets may remain fearful, have difficulty forming trusting relationships and lack confidence

Tara Fishler is a conflict resolution specialist and founder of Customized Training Solutions, a New York-based provider of conflict resolution, training and strategic management services. Visit to learn more.

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Dairy Disputes

Posted By Peter Glassman, NYSAMP Statewide Director, Tuesday, June 23, 2015

Kacey Ellsworth, the Executive Director of ACCORD, the Community Dispute Resolution Center that serves Broome and Tioga Counties, recently took a tour of a local dairy farm. ACCORD has been successful in mediating accounts receivable/credit cases involving agricultural producers in her region. These types of cases are funded under the NYS Agricultural Mediation Program. Maybe this kind of outreach can generate more referrals from dairy farms...

Here is Kacey’s report with a photo!

We learned a lot and now have several contacts that we can follow up on. We gathered information about all of the potential people dairy farmers may owe money to, who may owe money to the dairy farmer, running a small family farm, chores, processes, of course cows and strategies on how to build trust with dairy farmers. It was interesting because they kept saying that running a small family farm was like being on an island; people may come and go but you are really just by yourself and kind of cut off from the rest of the world. They talked about the meetings that were held periodically but said that they only go to the one that gives the forecast of what milk prices will be for the year and that they don’t have time to go to the others.

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On the Right Track? Or, Still Waiting for the Paradigm Shift.

Posted By Charlotte Carter, NYSDRA Executive Director, Wednesday, June 17, 2015
Updated: Wednesday, June 17, 2015

Many decades ago, I discovered “ADR” after representing feuding parents in a heartbreaking family court case as part of my law school clinic. The parents used the tools they learned in court to attack each another and maximize damage. Their children suffered with the resulting mental, emotional, and physical manifestations. Two fine institutions - the legal system and the family - were on a disastrous collision course. There had to be a better way to manage parental conflict and to protect children.

I spent the next semester reading and writing about ADR. That independent study changed my life goals and direction. It was clear that the legal system, rooted in rights-based litigation, was good at resolving many disputes. However, it was not always suited to resolving conflicts that involved restructuring important relationships. ADR offered potential for collaborative problem solving, and preserving personal and business relationships. Dispute resolution faced legitimate challenges about the delivery of justice, conflict with the mainstream legal community, and problems with scaling up design, funding and implementing of programs. Nevertheless, a shift towards social justice seemed desirable and inevitable.

Fast forward, and we are still waiting for that paradigm shift. And still wondering if we are on the right track. If so, why is progress and support for a more effective, accessible, and fair justice system so slow? Why isn’t mediation a common, or even mandatory, first step for more disputes? Why are we still the “alternative,” when as a young friend observed “Oh, you mean what you do is actual dispute resolution?”

I don’t know.

What I do know is that decades of experience as a community mediator and another decade with NYSDRA have only reinforced my early convictions and excitement. My mentors have been the folks who were willing to give it a try. It is a challenge and a privilege to sit with them and witness the hurt, anger, misunderstanding, mistrust, and mean-spiritedness we all feel in conflict. Gradually, the energy shifts in response to the reflections, questions, or interventions that resonate in the room. Surprisingly often, we have the honor to see those same folks reach deep into reservoirs of hope, trust, and creativity that had been temporarily inaccessible. Collaborative problem solving becomes manifest.

So there I go again, testifying to the converted. What do we need to do differently to juice up that paradigm shift? Here are a few suggestions:

Walk that talk, model that shift: Use mediation in your own life to address unresolved conflict, or for planning purposes, especially where there are complex substantive matters, important relationships and/or high emotions involved.

Talk the walk: Educate others by catching them doing it right. Notice when people around you are using good skills in communication, negotiation or conflict management. Tell them what they did and why you noticed. (Thank you to Dan Weitz and Sheila Sproule of OCA/ADR for their workshop at NYSDRA’s Annual Conference).

Promote and challenge: Ask a roomful of mediators if they utilize mediation and how often. (Once for your divorce is not enough!) Urge your family, friends, and acquaintances to use dispute resolution. Look for opportunities to promote mediation to manage conflict and change in your communities.

Get out of our box: Talk to people in other professions, businesses, or in communities that are different from your own. Ask questions, listen closely, and then explain dispute resolution in new and relevant ways. Lose the jargon. Promote our values, skills, and services with other social causes or charities.

Stop social grooming and preaching to the converted. Don’t assume that the public or other professionals understand or need your services. Invite yourself to the table. Don’t be neutral about your profession.

Talk to power: Commit to building awareness and solidarity. Join organizations involved in mediation advocacy and outreach. Communicate regularly with policy and decision makers on every level.

What is on your list? What ideas do you have for increasing the effectiveness and visibility of dispute resolution? I’ll be exploring some of the suggestions in more detail in future posts. Please feel free to comment below.

Tags:  ADR  advocacy  collaborative  conflict management  dispute resolution  interest based  NYSDRA  paradigm shift  planning  problem solving  social justice 

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O Baltimore!

Posted By Peter Glassman, NYSAMP Statewide Director, Friday, May 1, 2015
Updated: Wednesday, May 6, 2015

I just returned from three days in Baltimore. I was there for a conference of the Coalition for Agriculture Mediation Programs.  We were holed up in a downtown hotel – advised not to venture outside while watching horrifying video of ongoing mayhem on the local news.  Police, fire and military vehicles could be frequently seen and heard speeding by on downtown streets.


The irony was not lost on us that we had traveled from around the country to share our skills and experiences in conflict management while violent conflict raged around us.  And yet we dared not venture outside.


Hotel staff spoke of lifetimes of experiences with the Baltimore police ranging from disrespectful to appalling.


When the conference ended on Wednesday, I ventured down to the Inner Harbor.  Many Baltimoreans complain about the amount of development dollars that have been plowed into this slick, touristy area, while blight and decay overtake most other neighborhoods in the city.  An Orioles game at nearby Camden Yards was played in the stadium’s empty, cavernous expanse.  The game was closed to the public for safety reasons. Interesting business model.


There, amidst the pristine streets, glitzy Anne Taylors and Cheesecake Factorys, were hundreds of National Guard soldiers armed with automatic weapons.  Humvees were ostentatiously parked everywhere.  People cheerfully approached these soldiers to snap selfies.  A bonus tourist attraction.


Though I have lots of strong opinions on the state of race and the criminal justice system in our country – I will demur for now.  What I’d like to share is how bizarre and disconcerting these images were.  How quickly curfews and militarization can become the new normal.  And how chilling that prospect is.


I mused for a bit on the toxic level of injustice and inequality that is underscored by the contrast among the gorgeous Inner Harbor, the presence of military personnel and equipment, and the poverty, blight and hopelessness that exists mere blocks away.  I cogitated on the role we as dispute resolution professionals could play in righting these wrongs.  


Then I went to the Aquarium. 

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Tags:  Baltimore  mediation  police  riots 

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